HOW DO I LOAD SONGS FROM MY COMP TO THE SIM CARD

Connect your phone to the computer, download the drivers then open the explore device option that will likely pop up about your phones internal memory storage.
You can't put songs onto a sim card.

I prefer to use a memory card that fits the phone. Get a USB adaptor for the memory card. Plug that into the computer, then simply open the explore memory card option. Also open the folder that contains the songs you want to transfer. Then drag the song files across to the memory card.

Unless you're using an Iphone. Then you have to go through the whole rigmarole of downloading Itunes, opening an Apple account.

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