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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice
Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 8:13 pm
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Go talk to her. You'll want to show your sense of humor, be funny, however don't look like an asswagon because of it. Girls like funny guys, not clowns. Keep language PG-13 at worst AT LEAST until you know her better, some girls tend to be turned away by that. Be confident, but not cocky; you don't want to come across as some shy mousy kid.

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A few words of advice:

If you haven't lost your virginity, keep it until you are absolutely sure she is your soul mate. If there is one thing I'd do over, it would be to wait for my soul mate. It's a biblical thing, "when the two become one flesh". I do wish I would have understood this sooner.

You'll need to know a woman for at least 2 full years of regular contact to establish whether or not she is your soul mate, not your lust mate -- even if you both "know". What is regular contact? You're with each other as friends most, if not all of the time. If she thinks you are her soul mate, she wont want to do *anything* without you!

If she's "dating" or "going out" or "staying late" or with "an old friend", other men, she's absolutely not your soul mate and is probably lusting with those men, in which case, you're just another guy to her!

Look into The Five Love Languages...this may be a great way to break the ice with her if you are serious! And, it will be a strong foundation for you two to build upon! And, it will be a strong foundation for you to present to your soul mate, when you find her!

Know that people change from day to day, year to year, decade to decade. What you two enjoy today may not be enjoyable for one or the other in the future! The 2-year association usually roots all that out!

Know that each time you conquer awkward feelings, it gets easier to do so and you will become less and less flustered as time goes along! Kind o' like taking a dive into cold water. You get over the shock quickly and it becomes easier to take the dive each time knowing that brief shock turns to warm fun!

If you have any doubts about joining flesh with a woman for all of eternity, don't, period. That's your good instincts talking, listen to them.

oh..."trust but verify."

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice
Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 8:53 pm
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RCB-CA-USA wrote:
A few words of advice:

It's a biblical thing, "when the two become one flesh". I do wish I would have understood this sooner.

You'll need to know a woman for at least 2 full years of regular contact to establish whether or not she is your soul mate, not your lust mate -- even if you both "know".

If she's "dating" or "going out" or "staying late" or with "an old friend", other men, she's absolutely not your soul mate and is probably lusting with those men,

Look into The Five Love Languages...

Know that people change from day to day, year to year, decade to decade.

it becomes easier to take the dive each time knowing that brief shock turns to warm fun!

If you have any doubts about joining flesh with a woman for all of eternity, don't,



I agree with Floyd....For a change... :lol:

WTF is this mooronic dribble....

Your on the wrong site try i am an astronaught with no people skills .com......don't feed our young forum members with your deranged bull $@!& the kid just wants some pointers on dating women not starting a cult.....

Weirdo...

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice
Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 11:40 pm
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and with my ross geller-like talking to girl skills

Nooooooo, should have spotted this sooner Riley, jeez hope it's not to late, you don't have to ask her to get married :lol: :lol:


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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice
Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 12:06 am
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ok, so it looks like the best thing to do, is to talk to her :lol:
well considering we are dicecting a sheeps brain next week in science( :? ), the teacher is bound to organise us into groups, i could ask try to get in her group i spose.

knowing me id probably ask her something like 2:05 of this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66WnoqTd ... re=related
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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice
Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 12:32 am
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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Just wondered, has dissecting anything I mean anything, at school, ever in any way helped in anyone's day to day life, medical personel need not reply :wink: .
You could always try the old "pretend to faint with one eye half open routine" during the gory part, see if she comes rushing to your rescue :lol:


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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 6:00 am
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This always worked for me: Instead of mentally torturing yourself, go up to the girl, one on one, tell her you're super nervous and don't have any good lines. Go on to say that you think she's a very intelligent, attractive person with a great personality. Then ask her if she'd like to go for a soda (or whatever it is you kids do nowadays within a casual, non-threatening setting). One of two things will happen: She'll either agree to it or shoot you down, plain and simple. Either way, you'll have closure.

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 6:20 am
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Martian wrote:
This always worked for me: Instead of mentally torturing yourself, go up to the girl, one on one, tell her you're super nervous and don't have any good lines. Go on to say that you think she's a very intelligent, attractive person with a great personality. Then ask her if she'd like to go for a soda (or whatever it is you kids do nowadays within a casual, non-threatening setting). One of two things will happen: She'll either agree to it or shoot you down, plain and simple. Either way, you'll have closure.

I like Martian's direct approach. All the cards are on the table at that point.

Go for it Riley!

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 8:08 am
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Talk to her. trust me. It's alot harder for a girl to get the courage to talk to a guy tan vise-versa. trust me. Girls like it when guys make the first move. alot.
Also, Start with hey, what's up, starta perfectly normal conversation, and go from there. You gotta start by gettin' to her heart slowly, no girl likes a pushy guy, trust me. Don't get yourself locked in the friend-zone though.
Unless she absolutely hates you, you will have success with this, get her number, sweet talk her, it works, trust me.
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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 2:35 pm
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rileymcc just be yourself.

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 5:05 pm
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rileymcc just be yourself.


This above all!

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 5:15 pm
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I sort of made a similar thread to this, as most of you recall.

But anyways, this Valentine's day, I got her a gift I knew she'd love. (Beef jerky) I used the gift itself to hide a letter (basically, I got 3 bags of beef jerky and hid the letter in between 2 of them, taped the 2 on all 4 sides, and taped the 1 on the front with the spaces open, so I could better put a hand tied bow) It went better than expected. The only reason I felt I could do the letter is because I knew her for a long time before I did it. I suggest you be just friends for now, then hand write her a letter and make sure she finds it when you're gone.

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 5:17 pm
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Riley, Do you talk to her this week? How did it go? The longer you wait the harder it will be.

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 6:57 pm
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i tried. but no.
she did however tell me that there werent any IT technicians in the in the IT office at the school as my laptop was busted. it was just so unexpected i just said, 'uh, alright', and went back to my seat. if i had've known i atleast would have said something a tad more constructive :lol:

maybe next week...

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 7:10 pm
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rileymcc wrote:
i tried. but no.
she did however tell me that there werent any IT technicians in the in the IT office at the school as my laptop was busted. it was just so unexpected i just said, 'uh, alright', and went back to my seat. if i had've known i atleast would have said something a tad more constructive :lol:

maybe next week...


Aren't you sick of the torture by now? No maybe!! You only have a small window before any romantic notions on her part pass and you are permanently reassigned to her 'just friends' category. You cannot put it off any longer, man up and go for it ASAP!!!

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Post subject: Re: off topic girl advice needed
Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:14 pm
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Well at least you broke the ice. Next time you pass her in the hallway, just say "Hey" and give her a flirty smile. What ever you do, don't be shy about it, real life is not like the movies, chicks don't dig shy guys. I'm not saying don't be yourself, just have some confidence in yourself.

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