thanks man that's exactly what i needed a good pep talk always gets me goin

your welcome.
a pep talk only works if you learn from it and act on its advice.

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63supro
"The good thing is in a club situation, most of the patrons are trashed and really can't tell the difference."

yeah if anything goes wrong screw it i'm not taking the abuse any more

ok go to it. report back to this post and lets us know how it goes.

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63supro
"The good thing is in a club situation, most of the patrons are trashed and really can't tell the difference."

will do

Ralfc....

Way Cool Jr. is giving you great "life" advice--it has nothing to do with a band per se. The DH factor can make the best situation stink. I left what should have been a great job, with great people, all professional, because the boss and owner made "The Devil Wears Prada" look pleasant.

Life is too short to let a DH give you stress. It can't be good for your playing either, and you can't be enjoying playing right now either.

So WCJ has put it well: Either the bass player moves on or you do. The only thing I would add is that it's bad form to give an ultimatum. It WILL come back to haunt you.
If your other band mates don't agree with your about replacing him, then they've made their choice and kiss 'em good-bye and move on.

Best of luck.

um yeah, more often than not you will get your ultimatum answer there on the spot and it might suprise you. just go in with full intention of bettering your situation one way or another, and hold fast to your decision and make things happen.
we want to hear results bro. i know we are talking you into a situation you might not be comfortable with, but its for your own good. your gonna find yourself in uncomfortable situations in life and you will be forced to deal with them. thing is, we here care enough about you and your situation. a lot of us have seen or been through this ourselves.
no good can come from this ongoing stress in your life and band situation.
take action for yourself one way or another. do remember, there is a very good chance that this wont be the last band you will ever be in no matter what you choose to do here.

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63supro
"The good thing is in a club situation, most of the patrons are trashed and really can't tell the difference."

"um yeah, more often than not you will get your ultimatum answer there on the spot and it might surprise you."


Not me! If someone gives me an ultimatum like that he/she is GONE! I never give 'em because that's just what I expect.

"floyd rose... wat's the use?"

if you don't know, then forget about it.

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you can save the world with your guitar one love song at a time it's just better, more fun, easier with a fender solid body electric guitar or electric bass guitar.

dude if you don't get the post check out the beginning of the post

yeah i come to think of it could do the crazy train riff perfectly and now i think i'm a bit traumatized cause i saw him do it the day he made a scene and now i can't... my tapping skills have been harmed as well...

Too bad you're not in the US--then you'd sue him for "destruction of skills" or some other such nonsense.

lol gotta love the north american justice system i'm canadian so i kinda know how it works